Workshops
Singles
As a single person, most of us learn about relationships from our parents, relatives, and friends. Whether it was healthy or not; this is the way we model our relationship by pattern what we saw, learned and bringing baggage from previous relationships Therefore before considering a new relationship, you must look within yourself and ask the question “I’m I ready to enter into this romantic relationship?” If so, what are some things I need to consider addressing about my self-knowing it could affect the other person in the relationship? Seeking advice for self as a single person is one key to solving any issue that has the potential to damaging a relationship.
Couples
Once you are in a loving relationship as a couple and thinking about a wedding, your life changes by your expectations, desires, dreams and the type of marriage you envision for yourself. Many questions go through your mind as what kind of relationship you will have, I’m I going to be a loving, caring, faithful wife, husband, did I make the right decision, I’m I ready for this long-term commitment and responsibility until death do us apart, knowing that divorce would not be an option. You want to seek to advise in answering some of these questions before you say I, DO. Preparation is the key, seek premarital counseling to address those and other concerns that will come up in your relationship. Think about your relationship as planning a trip where you will need to know where you are going, how long it will take to get there, along with the cost, food, and entertainment to ensure a prosperous time, just look at counseling as your GPS
Married
Once you go from being a couple to become husband and wife, your life will change. You should stop thinking "I" and start thinking "Us." You left living as a single person to entering one of a partnership where you seek each other's opinion when making decisions, where your wants, needs, and goals aligned with what is best for the relationship, not the individual.